starrynite's Blog

August 16, 2009

It isn't a calamity to die with unfullfilled dreams, but it is a calamity not to dream.I often find things in my journal that my sister has added. These little tid bits here and there. This one just got to me so i thought I'd share.............

PLEASE, don't ask me if I'm over it yet. I'll never be over it. PLEASE don't tell me she's in a better place. She isn't with me. PLEASE, don't say at least she isn't suffering. I haven't come to terms with why she had to suffer at all. PLEASE, don't tell me you know how I feel. Unless you have lost a child. PLEASE, don't ask me if I feel better. Bereavement isn't a condition that clears up. PLEASE, don't tell me at least you had her for the time we did. When would you choose for your child to die? PLEASE, don't tell me GOD never gives you more than you can bear. PLEASE, just say you are sorry. PLEASE, just let me talk about my daughter. PLEASE, mention my childs name. PLEASE, just let me cry. by my sister Gariann

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      OneinaMillion
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      Posted 2 months ago by OneinaMillion

      Hey thanks for asking my ink work is done, they just finished putting the white streaks running through my wings, havnt posted it yet, your pic looks nice, keep in touch,oneinamillion their are angels everywhere

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      Posted 3 months ago by OneinaMillion

      hey starrynight,

      like your tattoo i just got mine took 4/12 hours of a angel with her wings spread from the back up to the clouds with white lights shining off my wings and a scroll that reads one in a million. im trying to figure out what im doing wrong i want to put it on the site

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      Posted 3 months ago by Chani

      Hey Star, That is just so full of real emotion and so true. Those that havent been thru what she has would say those things, and the only real way to deal is to be honest and truthful which unfortunately is always so much harder as we all try to support those that are grieving. So difficult to know what should be said in those circumstances except to let that person know that you love them and that it is ok to feel whatever they feel. Everyone is an individual and therefore will always feel individually about a situation..I feel ever so sorry for her if this is the reality of her situation. Much love Chani xx

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      Posted 3 months ago by 13mindfreak13

      how did you get all that stuff on your site?

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      Posted 3 months ago by Teresa13

      I really love what you wrote,sometimes alone time is good for all of us to reflect on what we have gone through or are currently going through.It gives you time to think and feel what ever it is you are going through.It would be good though to have a pet there with you or at least one friend. What you wrote sounds like a good song.