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LESSON 9-YOUR POINT? PART 3 OF "WOMEN"

January 13, 2009

Women talk alot we know that. They like talking about their "feelings" for some reason. Sucks for us guys but we deal if only they could hurry up their stories about their "feelings"

"We need to talk"......F███!!.....This is what guys say to themselves when women say those 4 dreadful words. Why? because that means they want to break up with you? No its much worse it means they want to talk about their feelings. When you hear those words, guys run now!! but if you're cornered then nothing can be done. Women always do that they corner the guy so hes forced to listen to their long boring story about how terrible their day was or how they hate their job or their boss. They get you right at the time you're relaxed just watching tv, about to take a nap, or when you're just about to take care of biness in the facilities (if u know what i mean) You're all ready for a nap then out of nowhere she busts in, "we need to talk" and then come the tears. You're all psyched for a game on tv its the last quarter the final play is about to be made and then...."Can you turn that off? I want to talk to you." WELL DAMN IT!! When we need to take care of biness we need to focus and you at the other end of the door yammering on isnt helping. So we have to listen to a story that is nowhere near interesting to us. We cant tell you anything cuz then you get mad that we dont care. It takes women 45 min to get to the point of the story and when we dont listen they get mad and then goes by another 45 min of arguing. Guys just want to get home and relax after work, eat, and sleep all there (well one more thing but yall know what that is already) We're not that complicated to figure out. Plus women start off on one thing then go a million other different ways in the story. Still they get mad at guys for not listening. It's not that we dont listen it's we cant keep up we cant take in that much info. So men do this, tell her to stop and ask, "Okay is this what u meant? good cuz originally I thought u were talking about this that now lets stay with that." Just gt to the point thats all we want to hear(prefer u kept your feeling to yourself) That way there is no arguing. Saves time, we can help faster if thats what u want. If u just want to talk so someone can listen hell no thats what u got girlfriends for go talk to them about your problems not guys. Guys arent very smart when it comes to bitching so just talk to guys like they're 4 year olds. Simplify and be gone, leave us to relax once again.

ONCE AGAIN NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THIS SOME WOMEN ACTUALLY DO GET RIGHT TO THE POINT SO CALM DOWN!!!!!

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    • Photo of Mindfreakwitch Mindfreakwitch
      Mindfreakwitch
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      Posted 11 months ago by Mindfreakwitch

      Yeah i know what you mean . When i want to talk to my Fiance i tell him that at least a day maybe more before i do it. So that he has time for me and isn't stressed or something .

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      awesome_amberCA
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      Posted 11 months ago by awesome_amberCA

      yup pretty much common knowledge, only an idiot wouldn't get it, but hey there's lots of those on the world.

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      Posted 11 months ago by Stick_guy

      spell check man, you put say instead of day about line five or six, plus a bunch more. other then that, it's all common knowledge at this point

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      Posted 11 months ago by julija

      yeah that's true....but i'm not like this lol :P

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      ericyr
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      Posted 11 months ago by ericyr

      lol yes its so true..actually its those kind of girls i cannot stand :P people say i'm blunt...hard and to the point...not ashamed of it either....i tell the truth the way it is

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      Posted 11 months ago by lava81174

      big LOL.i know exactly what you mean,just that I AM the one who is annoyed..just last week i had my girl at the phone and she was talking endlessly about an hour,didnt care what i have to say,when ever i try to talk,she comes up with the next subject about herself of corse..pretty much all my GIRL friends are like that.when they want to talk it means for me"shut up and listen"....if iam interestet or not...why do they dont want to hear my story?my feelings?girls just want to talk,boys can listen better.that is my experience.

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      Posted 11 months ago by jessrn71

      I read it in the Psychology books that my husband is studying...I was a skeptic at first...makes sense...and we all know what happens if we don't have the correct levels or testosterone or estrogen in our bodies...Hmmmm no brainer there...only differance that makes us any different than the monkeys at the zoo is that we can walk, talk, and complain...so until another species can outdo that...men will just have to listen to women...so get workiing on a solution...create an alternate world or being..we will be waiting with anticipation to what you can create. But most men would keep it a secret and sell it to the highest bidder...there is that testosterone working again...

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      Posted 11 months ago by jessrn71

      Most of the time with men or women, boys or girls...no one EVER admits to what the conversations started about...and no one ever blames themselves...but most of the time it is 50/50...hence another oppourtunity to have another bitch session.

      Women are fueled by emotions and my husband told me that really the only difference between men and women is testosterone...so don't be so quick to say you don't understand. It is a proven medical fact that boys and men have just as much estrogen as women do...you just have more testosterone to make it a comfortable union....

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      Posted 11 months ago by jessrn71

      You will soon learn that is present in most marriages as well. In fact...my husband just suffered a knock out bitch session with Moi...you win some...you loose some...he is more controlling than me...and then he rebuts with...What made you think that..I speak it like it is bullshit and we waiver from what the "I want to talk" discussion was in the first place. Women can't bitch with other women for long...they need a mediator...and sometimes...get too much estrogen and strong opinions..you get a cat fight. which most men love to watch...HA HA

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      Posted 11 months ago (changed 11 months ago) by eaglefox

      yes, this is true. problems i've learned the term for this "bitching" it is called co-dependancy. it is when someone wants to feel miserable with them and to show that they understand. women tend to be more emotional than men do. they tend to need more emotional support than a guy does. women let the world see their feeling while a guy will keep it all to hisself. yes, guys are simpler and it doesn't mean they are 4-yr-olds it just means that they aren't as complicated and hard to understand