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LESSON 9-YOUR POINT? PART 3 OF "WOMEN"

January 13, 2009

Women talk alot we know that. They like talking about their "feelings" for some reason. Sucks for us guys but we deal if only they could hurry up their stories about their "feelings"

"We need to talk"......F███!!.....This is what guys say to themselves when women say those 4 dreadful words. Why? because that means they want to break up with you? No its much worse it means they want to talk about their feelings. When you hear those words, guys run now!! but if you're cornered then nothing can be done. Women always do that they corner the guy so hes forced to listen to their long boring story about how terrible their day was or how they hate their job or their boss. They get you right at the time you're relaxed just watching tv, about to take a nap, or when you're just about to take care of biness in the facilities (if u know what i mean) You're all ready for a nap then out of nowhere she busts in, "we need to talk" and then come the tears. You're all psyched for a game on tv its the last quarter the final play is about to be made and then...."Can you turn that off? I want to talk to you." WELL DAMN IT!! When we need to take care of biness we need to focus and you at the other end of the door yammering on isnt helping. So we have to listen to a story that is nowhere near interesting to us. We cant tell you anything cuz then you get mad that we dont care. It takes women 45 min to get to the point of the story and when we dont listen they get mad and then goes by another 45 min of arguing. Guys just want to get home and relax after work, eat, and sleep all there (well one more thing but yall know what that is already) We're not that complicated to figure out. Plus women start off on one thing then go a million other different ways in the story. Still they get mad at guys for not listening. It's not that we dont listen it's we cant keep up we cant take in that much info. So men do this, tell her to stop and ask, "Okay is this what u meant? good cuz originally I thought u were talking about this that now lets stay with that." Just gt to the point thats all we want to hear(prefer u kept your feeling to yourself) That way there is no arguing. Saves time, we can help faster if thats what u want. If u just want to talk so someone can listen hell no thats what u got girlfriends for go talk to them about your problems not guys. Guys arent very smart when it comes to bitching so just talk to guys like they're 4 year olds. Simplify and be gone, leave us to relax once again.

ONCE AGAIN NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THIS SOME WOMEN ACTUALLY DO GET RIGHT TO THE POINT SO CALM DOWN!!!!!

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    • Photo of Special_K_19 Special_K_19
      Special_K_19
      Female, 26
      Pittsburgh, PA
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      Holiday madness has begun
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      Posted 11 months ago by Special_K_19

      To me talking is good in a relationship but I am a get to the point kind of person. So when I talk to a guy about something important I just say whats on my mind . there are some guys who are interested in what we have to say its rare but their out there. Plus I watch football too I wouldn't dare start up conversation unless its about football during a game.

    • Photo of Starangel6381 Starangel6381
      Starangel6381
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      Criss has an official page on Twitter and is asking all Loyals to follow him! The addy is http://twitter.com/crissangel
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      Posted 11 months ago by Starangel6381

      True, but not all are like that, as you put it! I thinks it's just easier getting to the point, but that is just me, no long stories! If you have a good relationship you don't have much to worry about!

    • Photo of rosegoddess rosegoddess
      rosegoddess
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      NEW BLOG..PLEASE READ
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      Posted 11 months ago by rosegoddess

      Well after reading how you feel, now I'll tell you how I feel...A good relationship should not be all hard work and drama, if it is...Get out! Seriously, good communication is key to a relationship, but there is definately a time and place, not during a good game : )

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      simplemind
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      season 5 OH YEAH!!!!
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      Posted 11 months ago by simplemind

      YOU SEE WE ALL HAVE ISSUES, BUT IT TAKES A VERY WISE PERSON TO SEE BEYOND THAT, AND TRY OUR BEST TO AT LEAST BE A FRIEND. WE DO NOT LIVE IN A PERFECT WORLD. AND NO ONE IS PERFECT IT JUST TAKES A LITTLE WORK(hard work) IT ALL DEPENDS ON YOU. SO IN OUR LIFE WE CAN TRULY SAY WE DID OUR BEST, AND MOVE ON (or in) LOVE YA KIDDO, ROXIE.

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      simplemind
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      season 5 OH YEAH!!!!
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      Posted 11 months ago by simplemind

      OH BOY, LOL, WHERE HAVE I HEARD THAT ONE BEFORE. YOU KNOW ITS QUITE SIMPLE, SOME MEN ARE TOO QUIET, OTHER ARE TOO LOUD, MEN ARE THE SUPPLIERS , YOU KNOW THE HUNTERS, BACK IN THE DAY THE CAVEMEN HUNTED AND THE WOMEN WERE DRAGED BY THEIR HAIR, LOL, WELL TODAY NOT MUCH HAS CHANGED EXCEPT THE WOMEN NOWADAYS GO OUT KICKING, AND SCREAMING, LOL, NO REALY THE THING IS EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT, AND EVERYONE HAS NEEDS TO BE MET BY SOMEONE OR OTHER. SOME PEOPLE CLICK AND OTHERS DONT.

    • Photo of CrissLover3 CrissLover3
      CrissLover3
      Female, 19
      South Williamsport, PA
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      When mind, body, and spirit are one...anything is possible
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      Posted 11 months ago by CrissLover3

      It is totally cool.

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      christara
      Female, 35
      Loveland, OH
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      Hi everyone
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      Posted 11 months ago by christara

      I know you never mentioned about abuse but it seems like men that don't talk about anything bottle it all up and then out of nowhere go off.I try not to get anyone mad at me.I believe in Jesus and to tell you the truth I have always said if they can do it to you then they can do it to me.You know how people treat others.That is why I treat people with gold because I want to be treated the same way.I really do agree with you and what you written about.Maybe men feel that they have to be all powerful and strong to not want to talk to us?Not sure.

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      christara
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      Posted 11 months ago (changed 11 months ago) by christara

      What's the point?? All I am saying they're are sperm banks out there for us women,what do we need men for??? If it was up to me I would have the sperms separated and only make women and keep one male sperm on hand.The best one like Criss Angel,George Clooney/Brad Pitt.that is my comment.Everything you said is true.Women need to talk and men just push it all in and then explode and cause violence or abuse to us.

    • Photo of lilred64 lilred64
      lilred64
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      We yelled "Criss, Criss" as he walked by and he looked up and said "Hey Ladies, Thanks"
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      Posted 11 months ago by lilred64

      Here's me getting to the point and not blabbering on -- If a guy can't take the time to listen to me, whatever, whenever the subject -- then he's really not worth my time since I would gladly listen to his talking about subjects that don't interest me -- levels of respect -- you either do or your don't. And for every guy that doesn't want to give his girl the courtesy, there's always another guy out there more than willing to fill in for him.

    • Photo of Dloyal Dloyal
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      The universe does not revolve around you. Nothing personal.
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      Posted 11 months ago by Dloyal

      LOL! I LOVED it! I love your sense of humor. It’s interesting to see things from a guy point of view…. However, I have to say that, most of the time we (girls) would not get mad if you (guys), would just give us a hug and lots of “shut up kisses” when you are not in the mood for our “boring” stories !LOl!